I am so pleased to have as my guest today, Anita Mellott, author of School is Where the Home Is. My mom home schooled my sister and I. Now my mom helps me to home school my son. It has been the root of our household for many years and I am encouraged and inspired when I hear devotionals from other home school families. I think you will all agree that this book is worth a look!
I love the title of your devotional “School is Where the Home is”. What inspired you to write an inspirational on Home Schooling?
First of all, Salena, thank you so much for inviting me to guest blog.
The Source of my inspiration is the Lord, and He sparks ideas in the most unusual ways...
Five years ago, we relocated to Atlanta, where I attended my first homeschool encouragement meeting. I left the meeting encouraged that I wasn’t the only parent who faced not-so-good homeschooling moments, or struggled with a balance between home, school, and life. After homeschooling for four years, I realized I had been missing the comfort and encouragement of others who understood the homeschooling life. I wondered what it would be like to have a resource that offered practical, biblical inspiration for each homeschooling day. That’s what birthed this book.
I wrote a few ideas down here and there, but nothing happed until four years ago, when I heard a soft whisper, “Write to encourage others.” The whisper continued through the angst and uncertainty of a high-risk pregnancy. When, against all odds, we were blessed with a healthy little girl, I knew I couldn’t ignore that whisper any longer. God in His unique way and timing allowed pieces to fall into place. As ideas took shape, a book of devotionals for homeschooling parents, born out of the joys and challenges of my journey, flowed from my pen.
How you have dealt with struggles and hardships are an encouragement to others. Reading your website can give a reader insight into your daily life. What would you like readers to take away from your book?
The root of the word “encouragement” in the Bible often means coming alongside others, to help and build up. That’s the purpose of this book.
*We are not alone as we homeschool. The One who called us will keep, sustain and empower us.
*It’s OK to for homeschool parents to make mistakes. When we go the cross, His mercy is great. His grace and redemption are bigger than our mistakes.
*We can do it. If homeschooling moms are like me, we second guess ourselves a lot. But God has led us to this path, and He will fashion us to be the homeschool moms He wants us to be—the perfect fit for our family.
* Take time: for the Lord, yourself and your family. Homeschooling is about relationships.
How long have you been writing?
Words have always fascinated me. My parents’ involvement in mass communication—advertising and writing in particular—fueled that fascination.
I started writing in earnest in 1994, out of sheer boredomJ. After getting married, Jim and I moved from my hometown, Bangalore, to a more rural area, where Jim was serving with Habitat for Humanity International. With nothing else to do (I had resigned from my position as head of the Department of Journalism), I began submitting articles to national newspapers. The difference is my motivation now—to write what’s on my heart—what I believe the Lord is leading me to.
What project are you currently working on?
Apart from regular assignments for Homeschool Enrichment Magazine and Novel Journey, I’m working on two projects: The first is a compilation of short stories based on the Indo-American immigrant experience, and life in India. I tried my hand at short stores to test the waters of fiction-writing. I didn’t know if I, as a non-fiction writer, could make the transition to fiction. The feedback from my critique group has helped me start on my first novel, which explores the dynamics of a mother-daughter relationship, spanning the lives of two generations in in India and America.
My desire is that all my writing would speak of hope and redemption. The rain may come, but the sun always peeks out after the rain and a rainbow graces the sky. So, joy will come in the morning, though weeping may last for a night.
What is your favorite past time?
Sigh, I’m not sure I even know what a “past time” is these days, with an uber-energetic three-year-old, a 13-year-old, and an aging mom who’s losing her memoryJ. But when I can grab a few minutes here and there, I love to read, and listen to classical music.
Can you give us a snippet out of your book?
Sure! Here you go:
Date Your Child!
For there will be a time for every activity, a time
to judge every deed. (Ecclesiastes 3:17)
“Jim, what should I do?”
“What’s going on?” He looked up from his book.
“Today wasn’t a good school day.” I touched the dark circle
my tears had left on the sofa and rubbed the dampness deeper
into the suede. “I don’t want Lisa’s memories of me being bad
ones. I want to have good times with her.”
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He reached over and patted my hand. “It’s going to be okay.”
“That’s what you always say.” I glared at him.
He looked at me over his glasses and shrugged. “Well, then,
date her!”
A smile spread across my face. That was it! We needed time
together away from school—mommy-daughter time not student teacher
time.
The next day, as we walked out of Chuck E. Cheese’s, a little
hand slid into mine. “That was the best time ever, Mommy.” I
tightened my grip on her hand.
Our special times together have grown in value over the years,
especially after my second child was born and adolescence hit.
Over the years, we’ve found:
• “Dates” can be simple and inexpensive. A walk, a manicure
at home, or reading a favorite book together suffices.
What’s important is making the time to connect.
• Consistency is important. Our “dates” are a standing
appointment on my calendar. My daughter knows they are a
priority for me, and we look forward to our special one-on one
time.
• Taking turns choosing what to do is a good idea. We try to
alternate each date with something that appeals to the other.
There’s a time for everything—including time to strengthen
parent-child relationships.
Digging deeper: Reflect on Ecclesiastes 3:1-8. Surprise your
children with a special, fun date.
Excerpted from School Is Where the Home Is by Anita Mellott, copyright © 2011 by Anita Mellott. Used by permission of Judson Press.)
Additional comments
Don’t give up: If God has put a dream in your heart or led you to a certain path, He will bring it to fruition. This book is a testimony to that. Since November 2009, my thirty queries for the homeschool devotional received twenty-seven rejections, and three acceptances. In April 2010, I signed a contract with Judson Press. Tears trickled down my cheeks in September 2010 as I typed the 180th devotional. A few days later, I sank to my knees and I lifted the 200-page manuscript heavenward in thanksgiving and dedication.
Now, more than a year after I signed a book contract, I’m humbled that the whisper that sounded four years ago, and developed into a dream--a dream to encourage homeschooling parents, to provide practical, biblical inspiration for each homeschool day—is now a reality.
Once again, thank you so much for having me. I pray that School Is Where the Home Is encourages parents as they follow God’s leading to homeschool their kids.
I am positive this wonderful book will touch many lives! Thank you for taking time to listen to the call God put on your heart to encourage others!
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